Quiet days for reflection at a centre behind an attractive country church; garden with a water feature; nearby country footpaths and walks, ideal for exploring the link between the outer landscape and our spiritual journey.

The Centre for Reflection -- address and how to find us -- offers you a quiet space for:

The church - the centre - the quiet garden - the surroundings

.The church:

Built in 1728, it is a fine example of 18th century free church architecture, with a double-hipped roof and a beautiful interior decorated in its original style. The Aston Tirrold United Reformed Church congregation worships here every Sunday.

.The centre:

A more modern building, recently renovated. A large room which can be divided by curtains, a quiet room, new kitchen and facilities complete a place suitable for a small group, quiet day or a meeting.

Entrance to the Centre

"Outer Landscape - Inner Journey": window by Jackie Shayler-Webb

.The garden:

is designed for contemplation and the Centre is affiliated to the Quiet Gardens Trust. The Trust provides a network of quiet gardens for prayer, stillness, reflection and appreciation of beauty; for learning about the Christian life and spirituality; and for experiencing creativity and healing in the context of God’s love.

This garden makes connections between the "Outer landscape" and our "Inner journey" and offers a sense of peace and stillness for those who sit and reflect on Drop in quiet days or led Quiet Days. The design of the garden which has no grass creates visual links between the outer landscape of stones, flowing water, circular seat round a tree and Mediterranean planting. The garden also holds a piece of sculpture by Jean Parker entitled Glimpses. It looks like a mobile disc on end, with one side of the Portland stone cut rough and the other very smooth. The two sides representing light and dark are cut through at an angle giving a glimpse of the garden beyond, a beautiful rendition of the glimpses of the Resurrection we catch in our every day lives. On the wall by the pool is a plaque with a quotation from Isaiah 58 "You will be like a well-watered garden, like a spring whose waters never fail".

Garden pool at the Centre

"Glimpses": sculpture by Jean Parker

.The surroundings:

On the edge of the twin villages of Aston Tirrold and Aston Upthorpe in the Oxfordshire countryside, with lanes and footpaths on the spring line at the northern edge of the Berkshire Downs. This range of chalk hills stretches from Swindon to meet the Chiltern Hills at Streatley and Goring on Thames.

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themed events with a leader - drop in quiet days - use by groups

Themed events with a leader:

 

We now have several groups which run on a regular basis. Feel free to join at any of their meetings. We also have some forthcoming quiet days with a theme

. Sunday 18 May Join us in celebrating the first ten years of the Centre for Reflection. Service of praise, quiet and thanksgiving in Aston Tirrold URC at 10.30am; lunch in the Centre 12.30pm; at 1.30pm, plans for the Centre, time for reflection, guided meditation, a walk round the village, exhibitions, circle dance etc; closing service of dedication 3.30pm. Come for all or any part of the day If coming for lunch, we need to know in advance - please pre-book

Saturdays - reflection days and workshops . 14 June 10am - 4pm Beyond the Damascus Road - Summer Quiet Day How do you keep your faith alive after the Damascus experience through the ups and downs of life? A Summer Quiet Day Leader: Becky Fisher Cost £20 - includes a light lunch - £30 for two people - £15 early booking during March please pre-book

Monday regular meditation group - . 1st and 3rd Mondays of each month - 5 - 6pm Continuing from 7 & 21 January Meditation Group You are welcome to join the meditation group, which is linked to the Christian Meditation network, at any of its meetings. Please contact the coordination team for further information and to tell us of your interest the first time.. Convenor: Ann Morton Cost: donation

Wednesdays - . 2nd Wednesday of each month - 2.15 - 4.15pm Continuing from 9 January Self-Exploration through Art In this monthly supportive group, we will be using ultra-simple art and craft activities to tap into our inner worlds. No artistic skill whatever is needed. The aim is to focus on the activity in the present moment, unburdened by the need to produce anything recognizable as art. You are welcome to join at any of its meetings. Please contact the Centre of Reflection coordination team for further information and to tell us of your interest the first time. Convenor: Jo Tucker Cost: donation

Thursdays - . usually this is the 1st Thursday each month - 2 - 4pm continuing 6 March etc Reflective Writers' Group Use the quietness and reflective space of the Centre to access your creativity and write and, if wanted, share your writing. The group starts with the generation of ideas before individual writing time and then meets for tea and the opportunity to share. New members welcome to join at any meeting. Please contact the Centre of Reflection coordination team for further information and to tell us of your interest the first time. Convenor: Margaret Gallop Cost: donation

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For pre-booking, please contact the coordination team for the Centre for Reflection - contact details.

You can also see some selected topics and leaders of previous quiet days.

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.Drop in:

Drop in Quiet Days 3rd Thursday in the month from 10am to 3.30pm Dates: 20 March, 17 April, 15 May The drop in quiet day on March 20 will be Maundy Thursday and will be led by Jo Tucker, from the Society of Friends) - there will also be a service in the church led by Rev Leslie Milton at 7.30pm. Drop in quiet days are a monthly opportunity to visit the Centre without having to book. The day starts with a short led meditation at 10.30 on a theme followed by quiet time. Feel free to use the day for yourself. People who come sometimes bring that book they have been longing to read, indulge in some artwork or poetry or prepare for writing or talks, as well as the chance for contemplation and personal reflection. There is always someone there to talk to if this would be helpful. Come for all or any part of the day, as you wish. Bring a packed lunch if you are with us at that time of day - refreshments provided. Cost: donation.

No prior booking needed, just drop in - all welcome

Services of reflection 4th Sunday in the month In the winter, when the clocks are on GMT, these 4th Sunday services will revert to morning at 10.30am. The 6pm evening services of led reflections in the church will resume when BST starts. Do join us

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.Use by groups:

If your church or group would like be away together for a quiet day, away day or meeting, the Centre for Reflection is available for use by groups at these times.

All day (Mondays to Thursdays, and Saturdays)	10am-4pm	£85 donation
Morning only (Mondays to Thursdays, and Saturdays)	10am-1pm	£45 donation
Afternoon only	1-4pm	£45 donation
A £20 deposit secures your booking.

Facilities at the centre

Tea/coffee and biscuits are provided. You are free to bring packed lunches or use the fully equipped kitchen.

On-site parking is available for up to 15 cars  Disabled access  Children are welcome

You can book a time by contacting the coordination team for the Centre for Reflection - contact details.

We can be flexible in solving the needs of your group. Do discuss your particular requirements with the Coordinator.

The Coordinator will arrange for a host to meet you at the Centre on the day, in order to open up and serve tea/coffee/juice on arrival, and also for someone to close the Centre when you finish.

Please note that we operate a no-smoking policy.

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People and affiliations

.affiliations:

The Centre for Reflection is affiliated to the URC Silence & Retreats Network and the Quiet Gardens Trust.  .

Contacts:

Centre for Reflection
at Aston Tirrold United Reformed Church
Spring Lane, Aston Tirrold, Didcot, Oxon OX11 9EJ
how to find us

Centre Coordination team:	Margaret Gallop and Hester Wilk	tel: 01235 850423
	email: coordinator AT reflect.freeuk.com
Minister:	Revd Dr Leslie Milton, Tutor In New Testament, Ripon College Cuddesdon, Cuddesdon, Oxford	tel: 01865 877408 fax: 01865 875431
	email: LMilton AT ripon-cuddesdon.ac.uk
(to send email replace "AT" by the "@" sign and remove all the spaces)

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